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My Mummy uniform Heather Y

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February 23, 2011

Heather Y published this post

I’m not saying I was ever a fashionista, but I definitely used to have a healthy interest in fashion and clothes (shoes, in particular). So the fact that my last five issues of Grazia (which I get on subscription) have gone unopened, and that I have actually been going out in public in my Tracky-Bs should be ringing alarm bells. Loudly.

It’s official, I’m stuck in a rut. My uniform? Long, black vest tops (bought and worn when I was pregnant). Black leggings (also bought when I was pregnant – they are maternity leggings). Denim skirt (maternity skirt recently replaced – just – with my old denim skirt). Loose shirt or cardigan (bought when pregnant). Ugg-style boots.

TIME FOR A VANITY WAKE UP CALL! It’s been over two years since I got pregnant. Why am I still wearing my pregnancy clothes? They are frayed, torn, stained and faded – and maybe that’s a bit like what I feel has happened to me too.

Time to offer up some poor excuses for this sorry state of affairs… A new body shape doesn’t help. I don’t know how to dress for this shape, but I do know it’s time to give up thinking I’ll ever wear some of my pre-pregnancy clothes again. Let’s get serious here. Lack of funds is a hurdle. But if you shop cleverly you can reinvent your wardrobe without spending a fortune (I hope). Highly limited shopping opportunities are also a hindrance. I need be more selfish and make some time for myself, without the kids, to trawl the shops. And remember that it is possible to shop online.

When even my mum tells me it’s about time I bought myself some new clothes I know it’s got critical. I’ve started to look at myself through other people’s eyes and it’s not great. Project ‘Young Mummy Makeover’ has commenced, and my battle plan is as follows:

1. Have a look around some shops to get an idea of what looks might suit me.
2. Do a massive Asos.com order for new tops, buying each one in two sizes to ensure a good fit (returns are free).
3. Invest in some trousers that fit (do this physically, in shops. New trousers are too difficult to buy when you’re unsure of your size and shape).
4. Reaffirm my long-forgotten love of new shoes, and buy some practical, yet attractive shoes for spring.
5. Make more of an effort – I’m talking hair, nails etc. I do actually enjoy this stuff, so I should spend more time doing it.

I’m hoping after a bit of time and effort, I’ll be good as new.

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  1. Emily R Emily R  This is so true, particularly the part about access to shops. I am still in post baby denial and refusing to buy myself any 'Fat' clothes as it is a tacit recognition that I will be this way for ever.... 1 year ago

  2. Mummy Rambles Mummy Rambles  Give yourself a good shake woman! Shame on you ;-) Come shopping with me - we'll take one twin each. 1 year ago

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